7 year relationship finished selling up house. it hurts so bad all the memories xx
December 2nd, 2010 | 
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Me and my partner of 7 years just finished with each other we own a house together too. I hurt so much inisde and i feel like running away from everyone and never coming back. I still love him but i know its the right thing. Does the pain ever go away ?? we have photos videos things together everything and i cant cope with letting go. I just want to die under a rock and never wake up. Im in so much pain its umbearable.
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trust me it will go away, you have to be strong and pull yourself through it, he is probably feeling the same also, you cant escape memories and photos etc, you have to just remember the happy times you had, and think it wasent to be. Your life is far from ended. And do you want to be one of these people that just wanna curl up and die because this has happened? You should be thinking, I am gonna get through, it will be hard but be determined, you will feel much better in yourself at the end of it. Relationships end every day all over the world people do get through and move on. It will be hard but you can do it!
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i know just how you feel, only time can heal this time of thing.
& its amazing how little you think of one man when you’re with another, try to start dating again
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so sorry. only time will help.
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Going through the experience right now
but been married 14 years. I will always care and love her but it was not a healthy thing for us to live together or for the kids.
It hurts and you just have to be positive! time will help you (i think).
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it’s normal to feel this way, let it take its course, book a holiday, pack up all the things that remind you of him into a box and when you have moved on, get rid of them all.
The most important thing is to keep active, join a gym and start socialising again. don’t sit around feeling sorry for yourself, the best thing i ever did was to move on quicker then the other person, rebound relationships are excellent! LOL
good luck!
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Yes it will feel like that for a while, then it will get better. Believe it or not but in a couple of years your be so happy with someone else and your actually be pleased that you found them instead.
As for right now you just need to get through it. So do whatever comfort things you can think of. Cry (not too much) eat ice-cream, watch stupid films, get a dog, busy yourself doing something. You basically just need to get through a couple of weeks while time does the healing. It WILL be OK, it just needs a little time.
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I am so sorry for u dear. But when some one dies the other person does not stop living. True it hurts like hell and following few months are going to be really horrid and hellish. But U are alive and this is a big blessing from God and dear life has to go on. So be patient try to divert ur thoughts in other interests and I am sure you will fight it out.
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trust me it will go away, you have to be strong and pull yourself through it, he is probably feeling the same also, you cant escape memories and photos etc, you have to just remember the happy times you had, and think it wasent to be. Your life is far from ended. And do you want to be one of these people that just wanna curl up and die because this has happened? You should be thinking, I am gonna get through, it will be hard but be determined, you will feel much better in yourself at the end of it. Relationships end every day all over the world people do get through and move on. It will be hard but you can do it!
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im so sorry….i hope things will get better for you in the future
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Never say your life has ended for it has only begun… In our journey we call life there are always pain predicament that we come by… I know It’s very hard for you to forget your partner and there is no medications or anything that can heal a broken heart… Only time will heal sweetie! Only time will heal! So just get rid of his pictures, I know it’s hard and devastating but in order to forget about someone you must get rid of the things that reminds you of him. You got to break all bonds, cut all the strings the connect you to him. Thus healing process begins… Well right now I can’t tell/don’t know how you feel so I can’t really say, "it’s okay," "forget about him," or " Move on" because it’s easy for me to say it but it’s very hard for you. I could only describe it as devastating based on what you posted…
Hope you feel better!
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Oh, sorry to hear that but can you let us know why you broke up? (if you are ok sharing of course). My sister broke with her bf last year after a 5 yr relationship, she also thought the world was over but they are now back together. I do not mean that you will get back your ex as my sis did, but I am sure you will be able to deal with the situation even if it is really painful, only time can heal those wounds.
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http://blog.secretoflove.info/2008/07/it-is-possible-to-get-your-ex-back.html my sis’s story how she got her ex back
Is there anything that you can do to fix the seven years relationship? I felt so sorry to see that a long relationship is ended. What make it end? It really hurt to throw it away. Can you mend it to happen? Forgiveness is the solution, and start it over again. Do not give up, treasure all the happy moments, forgive each other, try to talk things out, learn from your mistakes, do not just let it go. When there are problems, there are solutions to every problems, when it is broken, it can be fix. Give each other a chance to be a better partner.
I pray that you turn your eyes upon Jesus, He knows everything, your tears, your pains, and your sufferings, let Him guide you, comfort you, support you, build you up, sustain you, encourage you. I know He is there for you all the time just let Him. I really do not know what to tell you, only Jesus will tell you what is best for you. Do you know the song Turn your eyes – Turn your eyes upon Jesus, look fully in His Wonderful face , as the things on earth will grows strangely dim, in the light of His wonderful grace. I hope He will guide you.
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